Wednesday, May 7, 2014

10 Reasons You Are Homemaking Challenged and 10 Simple Ways to Overcome (part 3)

So you are Challenged in the area of Homemaking?  Have no fear, challenges are just opportunities for us to grow and overcome.  Here are 5 of 10 things that you can become less Homemaking Challenged.  If you missed the 10 Reasons you might be Homemaking Challenged, be sure to check out part 1 and part 2 of this series first!



1)  Get creative - overcoming a "Lack of Funds"
Getting creative is AWESOME.  I have been working on a dinning room makeover for 5 months now.  Sure sometimes the results don't come as quickly, but don't let that deter you!  Eventually things will come together.  It can be fun to get creative, I mean you can even find 30 different cool ways to make toilet paper roll wall art here.  With the invention of Pinterest, it is all to easy to find creative home solutions for free or cheap.

2) Plug in - overcoming a "Lack of Knowledge"
There are so many easy and amazing "how to" guides out there, that it is so easy to quickly and accurately gain knowledge on a topic that you don't know anything about.  I'm not saying blindly trust the almighty google with how to get a stain out of your grandma's lace doily.  However, if you see the same ideas over and over again, it typically means they work.  There are so many great books, blogs, and other resources out there that if you are looking for an answer, chances are you can find one.

3) Make Good Choices - overcoming "lack of management"
Honestly, this seems too simple, yet it is often overlooked.  Sometimes to get it done, you have to do it yourself, and other times you can easily delegate something to someone else.  You have to make the smart choice and decide which one is the most effective.  If I had the funds, I can tell you right now, I would weekly delegate cleaning to someone.  Since that isn't in our budget, we have to split the cleaning.  I have to choose jobs for everyone that they can do, and know they are going to do them to their ability, and not always my standards.  I have to choose which tasks I'm OK with that.

4) Find YOUR groove - overcoming a "lack of routine"
Some people paper check lists work, others post-its everywhere, some to the computer/ipad/phone list, others don't have a list.  Here is the deal.  Having a routine at some point during the day, when you can get some home tasks accomplished makes a HUGE difference.  It is really all about what works for YOU.  You a morning person?  Sweet!  Get up a little early and every morning pick a task to do in 15 minutes.  Stay home and the kids have naps?  Perfect!  Do all the dinner prep while they are sleeping so you can toss it in the oven and be done with it come eating time.  Find little things that you can build into your day regularly that will help you get things done.  Honestly there are some awesome charts and systems out there.  Not one has worked for me.  Why?  I can't do it regularly.  See routines only work if you work them.  You have to do it daily, build small habits into your day that will make your home life easier, and in a few months, you will notice a big difference.

5) Make time - overcoming a "lack of time"
Ok, I know, you can't actually create time out of thin air.  But you CAN manage your time better to help you find some more of it.  Prioritizing, stoping time wasters are two big ones.  Somethings can be multi-tasked such as laundry, but typically focusing on one task at a time will help you get things done more effectively.  You can read some other posts I wrote about time management here.

Come back tomorrow for 5 more simple ways to overcome the areas where you are Homemaking Challenged.


Friday, May 2, 2014

10 Reasons You Are Homemaking Challenged and 10 Simple Ways to Overcome (part 2)

Are you challenged in the area of homemaking?  Don't worry, you are in good company.  I am extremely challenged in this area, but it is an area I am learning and growing in every day.   I have started to make some changes and realized that coming of with some specific reasons that I am challenged, as well as solutions for those challenges could be the key to helping me grow even more in this area.  Have you ever sat down and asked yourself a very important question?  The question is simple.  Why?  This four part series will explore 10 reasons you are Homemaking Challenged and 10 simple ways to overcome.

If you missed yesterday's post with reasons 1-5 please read it here!  Here are 5 MORE reasons why you might be Homemaking Challenged:


6. Failure to plan/ Lack of Organization
I cannot express how many times this trips me up.  You would think I would learn and prepare better, but I don't.  For example, we do a weekly game night at our home and I always make a dessert.  You would think that I have it down by now, but half the time hubby is running to the store for an ingredient I was "sure" we had and we are scrambling to make our home "company ready".  It is stressful, and can be frustrating.  If I would actually plan in advance, our home would be "company ready" when I left the house that morning and dessert would be already completed or at least I would know what I was making and have everything ready to go.

7. Poor Results in the Past
It is so discouraging when you get in a rut, and know that no matter what steps you take, it won't do anything to fix the problem.  So why bother even trying.  You mentally set yourself up for failure before you even start.  It is so easy when you have kids to just let things go, because you will pick up after the kids and then turn around and it will be a mess again.  Or you will pour hours into a project only to have it fail and not live up to your expectations.  When you picture your past failures, it is challenging to try again.

8. Lack of Direction
It is impossible to make something great if you don't have a plan or path to take to get there.  What is your plan for your home?  What do you want to achieve.  If you don't know, then one of your challenges may be a lack of direction.

9. Exhaustion
Middle of the night feedings, late nights, early mornings.  All of these things can add up to feeling exhausted.  When you are run down, and tired doing anything is difficult.  Doing homemaking tasks well, near impossible.


10. Laziness
There are those times when I'd rather sit or lounge on the couch and watch netflix or amazon prime than do the dishes.  Sometimes, it is simple laziness that is our biggest challenge to overcome.

So there are my 10 simple reasons why you might be Homemaking Challenged.  Next in this series,  I will share 10 simple ways to overcome these challenges so that you can be less Homemaking Challenged!



Thursday, May 1, 2014

A Sweet Freebie!

Just wanted to share a sweet freebie with you, this is a new resource for mom's that is FREE for the Kindle!  Hope that it can help you!